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by Robert Hedges ©


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the transformation of a man into an aroused animal shows the woman's power, and thus is a turn on for the female. Sweetness, messiness, awkwardness, peoples fears and insecurities about their bodies.

smaller, sensual things, movement of skin against skin - a man's ability to be vulnerable is as exciting as his ability to be powerful - Dennis Quaid and Ellen Barkin "that or that?" from the Big Easy - is a sensous scene which women like.

99% of an sexually explicit video may not be a turn-on for a woman, but one image or a few lines can still be arousing, and it may help a woman overcome shyness.

Erotica on Film, by Lizzy Borden, director -

Janet Lever, PHD. Cal State at LA, sociology
Pepper Schwartz, PHD. UnivWash, Seattle, sociology

a guy thinks it is a great complement when she is comfortable enough to go to sleep right away after sex - why do women think of this as an insult ?

We vow to weap seas, live in fire, eat rocks, tame tigers, . . .this is the monstrosity in love.

Troilus in Shakespear's Troilus & Cressida We desire in a mate :
  • Fit body
  • rich fantasy repertoire
  • aids awareness
  • wider definition of good sex
  • open mind to more than the basics
  • a good friend to talk about
  • Glamor Sept 1995
  • as of Feb 1993 females 18-34 are up 134% since 1970
  • 36 M men single
  • 43 M women single
  • 111 men : 100 women < 25
  • 127 men : 100 women 25-29
  • 125 men : 100 women 30-34
  • 90% of people marry sometime
  • 27 % of single men in 1990 are looking for a partner
  • 16 % of single women in 1990 are looking for a partner
  • 40% of pregnancies occur before age 20 = Glamor Nov 1994


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